I just want to point out that trusting in someone’s competency and leaving certain work for them as you think they are better suited for the work… that is just no Hierarchy.
Let’s say, we have a man and a woman. They have babies and the babies seem to be able to fall asleep better to the song of the man’s deeper voice. The woman decides that she will let her husband put the children to sleep if possible. Did the woman submit to the hierarchy and her husband, or is she just efficient?
Oh thanks! Sea cucumber!
And once again, someone is missing the point between fantasy and reality.
But let’s say you are right, then my point is wrong. It was a response to the femdom claim.
The response is easy and obvious.
Femdom is not a real hierarchy. It is a role play. That is why there is aftercare and stuff. To separate daily life and reality from role play.
Like there should be a safe word that ends the role play. There is no “nvm let’s not” button in a real hierarchy.
Good Luck for both of you!
You are misunderstanding my point.
My point is that letting someone handle certain things and even listening to their advice is not hierarchical.
So the person written the comment doesn’t need a hierarchy to let their coworker handle organisational tasks nor do they need it to listening to their coworker’s advice.
So just because they like it that way, doesn’t mean they like the hierarchy nor that they want it, but rather that they like some tasks more than others and acknowledge expertise.
I am not saying that there is no Hierarchy. I just don’t think they want it, just because they like other elements in their cooperation.